If you are an aggressive gossiper who loves gossiping, ask yourself what good it does to your soul?It may give temporary joy and happiness but think for the long run.
Enjoy your life meaningfully
Are your friends’ gossip and lie?I tell you, they are not your friends. Escape from them. Touch your heart and say, don’t you have any meaningful conversation like how to develop the society, how to be a good Indian citizen, how to care for your family, etc. If you don’t like talking about these, share your personal goals with your friends and tell them how you plan to achieve that.
Do you have false pride? If you think like this, “I am better than your ex, and I am better than your next”. Who are you trying to fool? It may or may not be true but avoid it as it is the primary cause for people to gossip about you and spread lies and rumors about you.
Be positive but not always
My blood group is B+ but I don’t act like one. After all , I am human. I can’t be optimistic in all situations. For example, I am working in ABC company. It is raining outside and there is flood announcement. All mobile and internet network is disconnected. How can I stay positive while my family members are worrying about me? How will my behavior be?
Put your trust in the right people
Do you know anyone who you can proudly say, they are the most level headed person you have ever known? Congratulations, you have found the right person. Confide in them. They will not disappoint you. They won’t gossip about you. Tell them exactly how you appreciate them for protecting their secrets. Send them flowers on their birthdays and send those inspirational messages, etc.
Too much of anything is good for nothing
Don’t get too involved in something. It will not only spoil your mind, it spoils your overall health. Always be on the right track. Don’t lose confidence in yourself. How much can you get accomplished? How many talents you can manage? How much time you have got to relax? Are you worrying too much about who is gossiping about who, who is lying, spreading false rumors, etc.
Lack of faith in someone
Faith is not just a five letter word. It is a powerful word. Who do you have faith? Who you can say, she or he is someone I respect a lot? I love her or him to death? She/he always says the best thing to me. He/she uplifts my spirit. Is there anyone like that in your circle?Be very proud. You have got the right friend on your side. Gossipers and liars are everywhere, but one of a gem can make the gossipers and liars to drop this shameful act.
Trusting and having faith in someone is either a blessing or a curse. I will leave it up to you to decide whom to trust. Be your own guide. The above are the fantastico facts about living a meaningful life